some crazy kind of question

[wytchcroft]

Do you keep tabs on ex-boyfriends and -girlfriends over social networking sites? Do you think it's emotionally healthy or dangerous? Amusing or painful?

Sometimes i wonder where these psychotic questions come from.

But i guess that everybody has that chord and waits for it to get played.

There is no gone. There is no forgotten. There is no lost.
But all the same... 
From the silver in your belly to the water on my brain
memory is the whistle on the mystery train
so let's ride. Akiko-chan. One for you. And one = ALL.

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many thanks to whoever posted that to youtube.

the picture is an adaptation of the cover for Murakami's Sputnik Sweetheart... in the words of Yusuf Islam; Pick up on a good book now!

Comments

[bisocosispopuli.livejournal.com]

I love Iggy Pop! Sometimes, I wonder why you are so neat-o.

But regarding your post, I think it is emotionally unhealthy to "keep tabs" on people, because like you mention in this post, things are not forgotten. Why dig up old emotions that just make us feel icky? It may be tempting to track people, but what result does it really yield? If the feelings unearthed are gross, then that is not for me.

On a side note, I also do not see the relevance of social networking networking in my life. I think being on one opens one up to too many icky opportunities, like the ones mentioned above.

[bisocosispopuli.livejournal.com]

yummies!

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

iggy's pretty righteous for true.

i mostly think that keeping tabs on anyone for anything is creepy and wrong.

and hey - thanks for dropping by :))

*scone? cup of tea?*

[reginaclarejane.livejournal.com]

I was gonna say- pretty cool icon there, my boy! ;)
I love Yusuf Islam... just picking up there on your last bit...
:)

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

you should give the book a try too, Murakami is a fine writer IMO :))

[reginaclarejane.livejournal.com]

Really? I've heard of Him- it's him, right-? I will definitely do it!
:)

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

fab!:) any recommendations of your own???

[java-fiend.livejournal.com]

I am sadly Iggy Pop illiterate. :-(

As for your post... I do think it's really unhealthy to "keep tabs" on an ex. Computers allow us to engage in stalkish kinda behavior without ever leaving our rooms. If it's over, it's over... move on and find something or somebody new. Leave the past where it belongs.

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

music's in the ear of the beholder i guess :))

and memory is context.

i honestly don't know where the lj 'Writer's Block' gets such crazy questions... there was one about would you read someone's diary or mobile fone so either the question designers are deeply paranoid or (more likely) 14.

as for stalkers - in the real world they're just... not fun, no fun. at. all.

[java-fiend.livejournal.com]

Yeah, some of those questions are just ridiculous. Sometimes they're *really* reaching. lol...

Oh, so I shouldn't start stalking you then? Damn.

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

well, if you ask nicely and bring a carton of cigarettes... i might be persuaded. i'm very shallow. LOL!

some crazy kind of answer

[mr-stapleton.livejournal.com]

I do not keep tabs on my exs.
Emotionally healthy? - and what is emotional health? It varies from soul to soul, what not? For me - definitely not healthy.
Emotionally dangerous it can be, especially when the break is fresh. But then, everything is dangerous.
Amusing? I'm amused only with something living, not dead. So - definitely not.
Painful? Once again, fresh wounds do hurt more. The cord certainly remembers all touches an is still there to get played.
So, if you value your life or your reason, keep away from the moor exs...

Re: some crazy kind of answer

[i-am-nyman.livejournal.com]

stay away from the moor

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

did you say moore?? too bloody right that little titch is a public menace! a menace let me add.

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

a nimble reply my friend with which i must agree! :)

[mr-stapleton.livejournal.com]

oh, if you really must, my friend, you are welcome :)
but basically, never ever agree with cold-blooded murderer used to use giant dogs for his squattering purposes ;-)

[recycledfaery.livejournal.com]

I guess that's one good thing about marrying your first boyfriend. You never have to worry about these kinds of questions. *g* Although I have to say the stalker in me would probably totally keep tabs. ^^ But then again maybe I'll be so broken hearted that I won't be able to switch on the computer let alone surf the net.
*smiles*

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

sounds like a cover story to me... you are TOTALLY A SPY!! m'wha ha ha!! :))

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

*blows kiss*

[qfemale.livejournal.com]

>>Sometimes i wonder where these psychotic questions come from.

SOMEBODY BEING INCREDIBLY SCARED THEIR EX IS GONNA GOOGLE THEM?

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

exactly so! and such things are NO FUN.

also, hello!:))

welcome to my -

*casts eye over journal* er...
*runs off to tidy up, fetch vacuum cleaner etc*

somewhat messy lj!

Many apologies for the lack of dollhouse entries here.

[qfemale.livejournal.com]

>>Many apologies for the lack of dollhouse entries here.

What's that saying? I came for the show but stayed for the booze? :-p

[irishunchik.livejournal.com]

memory is the whistle on the mystery train...as for the social networking..well, i always try to turn the page with gone relations. i always try to keep feelings on their pages. another spring - another love:)

[wytchcroft.livejournal.com]

Ah oui, nouvelle année, nouvelle vie - nouvel amour ... :))