some crazy kind of question
Oct. 12th, 2009 10:31 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Do you keep tabs on ex-boyfriends and -girlfriends over social networking sites? Do you think it's emotionally healthy or dangerous? Amusing or painful?
Sometimes i wonder where these psychotic questions come from.
But i guess that everybody has that chord and waits for it to get played.
There is no gone. There is no forgotten. There is no lost.
But all the same...
From the silver in your belly to the water on my brain
memory is the whistle on the mystery train
so let's ride. Akiko-chan. One for you. And one = ALL.
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many thanks to whoever posted that to youtube.
the picture is an adaptation of the cover for Murakami's Sputnik Sweetheart... in the words of Yusuf Islam; Pick up on a good book now!
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Date: 2009-10-13 12:04 am (UTC)But regarding your post, I think it is emotionally unhealthy to "keep tabs" on people, because like you mention in this post, things are not forgotten. Why dig up old emotions that just make us feel icky? It may be tempting to track people, but what result does it really yield? If the feelings unearthed are gross, then that is not for me.
On a side note, I also do not see the relevance of social networking networking in my life. I think being on one opens one up to too many icky opportunities, like the ones mentioned above.
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Date: 2009-10-13 09:01 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-10-13 01:04 am (UTC)i mostly think that keeping tabs on anyone for anything is creepy and wrong.
and hey - thanks for dropping by :))
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